February 14, 2024

Special 07: Her Hot Date

The Match Marry Mate™ Show
The Match Marry Mate™ Show
Special 07: Her Hot Date

Show Notes

Happy Valentine’s Day, Lovebugs! Let’s embrace our Lover-Girl Archetypes with some romantic first-date GONE RIGHT energy. Who else to bring us these vibes but one of my favorite lover-girl clients, Laurie. Then, I activate my Sage Archetype to share practicality, strategy, and guidance. This date isn’t just about the lovey-dovey stuff, though. It involves repair and redemption–a pair of relationship skills necessary for strong connections and healthy relationships. We’ll also explore a pre-date ritual, emphasizing mutual effort in the dating process.

I share relationship insight about not jumping to conclusions, listening to your intuition, and giving a man a fair chance. We dissect the details, stressing the importance of holding a man to his word and practicing empathy and understanding. It’s not just about grand gestures; it’s about setting the stage for a meaningful and responsible connection. Stay tuned for insights into building smarter, safer, and happier romantic connections with Laurie and her date, Mr. Banana. 

If you have a Secret Story you want to share with me, I invite you to drop your truth for the next Secret Story episode!

Time Stamps:

  • [1:02] – Laurie will be recounting a dreamy date with a twist: a story of repair and redemption.
  • [5:03] – I set the stage for Laurie’s romantic date, repair work, and pre-date energy.
  • [8:32] – I share some important housekeeping notes before diving into Laurie’s story.
  • [10:12] – Laurie details her date, revealing a change in plans, romantic gestures, and meaningful conversation.
  • [14:44] – Mr. Banana’s date involves a gentle approach, exploring faith, family dynamics, and romantic energy.
  • [18:03] – I intervene, advising Laurie not to settle but to balance romance while ensuring a meaningful connection.
  • [19:42] – Laurie explains why she gave Mr. Banana a chance, expressing openness and acknowledging personal growth.
  • [21:56] – I offer guidance in negotiating and setting terms.
  • [24:47] – Questions are raised about Mr. Banana’s change in plans and delivering on commitments.
  • [26:55] – Noting the importance of giving chances, I explore the need for answers and fair evaluations.
  • [29:31] – I acknowledge past experiences, encouraging fair judgment and giving each man a chance to prove himself.
  • [31:47] – I advise Laurie to listen to her intuition and check assumptions, and I offer guidance on the redemption process.
  • [35:09] – Teaching pre-date rituals, I teach intentional conversations, negotiations, and agreements.
  • [38:31] – I close on the power of repair, getting what you want, and maintaining feminine wisdom.

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